Saul of Tarsus was a Roman citizen of the first century,
A.D., who had been a harsh persecutor of the early Christians. But in one of history's most famous conversions,
he experienced a life-changing epiphany when he heard the voice of God while
traveling on the Road to Damascus. He emerged
from this conversion to become St. Paul, the great apostle who played a paramount
role in spreading the seed of Christianity that would ultimately serve as the
greatest civilizing influence for much of mankind.
Twenty
centuries later, an outbreak of epiphanies of an entirely different sort is
taking place in one of the most rapid and dramatic transformations of
fundamental beliefs in human history. These
conversions are not occurring under the influence of the voice of God on the
Road to Damascus, but under the influence of tout le monde on the road to something like Gomorrah. As though on cue from some unseen
drillmaster, millions of Americans are suddenly marching in lockstep support of
a concept that, not so many years ago, was so alien and radical as to be far
outside the realm of serious contemplation – the strange oxymoron of marriage
between persons of the same sex.
For the entire two millennial span of the Christian era, the nuclear family centered around one man and one woman united in marriage has been the fundamental organizing unit of civilized society. Century after century of modern history has passed without any significant doubt or dissent regarding the exclusively heterosexual nature of marriage which, after all, is an inevitable reflection of the natural order.
But
now, in the early years of the 21st century, millions of Americans
are experiencing precipitate conversions to the view that marriage is not,
after all, a union between a man and a woman to facilitate the procreation of
children and the establishment and nurturing of families. It can just as well, they now profess, be an entirely different
kind of coupling between two men, or two women, without any capacity for conjugal
procreation or the establishment of biological families.
What had somehow escaped the knowledge or even the suspicion of the brightest and most imaginative human thinkers through the full span of civilized history has been suddenly and simultaneously discovered by millions of ordinary Americans not heretofore noted for their reflective bent -- the discovery that civilization's historical restriction of marriage to opposite sex couples has been a profound and glaring mistake all along. As they might say in the current jargon, "Who knew?"
What had somehow escaped the knowledge or even the suspicion of the brightest and most imaginative human thinkers through the full span of civilized history has been suddenly and simultaneously discovered by millions of ordinary Americans not heretofore noted for their reflective bent -- the discovery that civilization's historical restriction of marriage to opposite sex couples has been a profound and glaring mistake all along. As they might say in the current jargon, "Who knew?"
The
most recent prominent "convert" to this view is a 57-year-old
Republican senator from Ohio named Rob Portman.
In 1996, Portman had voted in support of the federal Defense of Marriage
Act ("DOMA"), which established marriage as solely between one man
and one woman for purposes of federal law and which was signed into law by
President Clinton (who has now likewise experienced the same epiphany and repudiated
the very legislation he had unhesitatingly signed into law). Presumably, Portman gave considerable thought
to his vote on this important bill, and it is fair to conclude that his vote
reflected his mature and considered opposition to same-sex marriage.
But
last week, with eyes moistened on the brink of tears, Portman dramatically
announced his conversion to supporting same-sex marriage in a maudlin interview
– which he had initiated and requested -- with a fawning CNN reporter. He declared that he adopted this position
because his son, a student at Yale University, had revealed to Portman that he (the
son) was a homosexual and Portman wished to be supportive. This patently incoherent mode of reasoning
leads one to wonder whether Portman would announce his support for legalizing
heroin upon learning that his son was an addicted heroin user.
The notion that a parent should abandon previously held moral and
religious standards because they conflict with a child's desire to enjoy
activities that conflict with those standards is preposterous. In a saner era, it would be taken for granted
that the son should attempt to conform his
behavior to the moral standards passed down to him by his father. But we live in the Age of Inversion.
Portman
is merely the latest prominent politician to perform an about-face, fall into step,
and march with the growing mob in support of the oxymoron known as same-sex
marriage (SSM for short). Clinton and
President Obama (who opposed SSM when he ran for President in 2008) are the
most prominent converts, but their ranks now spread across partisan lines. More importantly, various polls assert that
in the past decade a majority of the overall population (58% according to a
just-released Washington Post/ABC News poll) has abandoned the historical
understanding of marriage and now support SSM.
Most disturbingly of all, another recent poll purported to show that a
majority of self-identified Catholics
also support this view, even though homosexual acts (let alone the
sanctification of a union based upon such activity) are unambiguously condemned as
intrinsically sinful by firmly established Catholic doctrine
The above-noted
Post poll also shows an astonishingly precipitate reversal of American opinion
on this issue, from only 37% support of SSM in 2003 to 58% only ten years later
– i.e. roughly 60 million epiphanies
in a single decade. The extraordinary
speed of this widespread popular conversion (at least in America) on this
fundamental matter is stunning, and highly suspect. After all, the understanding that marriage is
exclusively heterosexual has been longstanding, uncontroversial, fundamental,
and shared across all subdivisions of society throughout the history of Western
Civilization.
What
would cause so many people suddenly to reject the long-settled and heretofore virtually
universal understanding of such a fundamental human institution? Is it likely that the millions of digital-age
Americans (with their notoriously limited attention spans) who now profess to
"support" same-sex marriage have actually sat down and carefully
pondered and sorted-out the issues and implications entailed by such a radical
societal change? Or is it more likely
that these abrupt conversions reflect a widespread desire to conform their
views to those considered "acceptable" among the most
prominent and influential opinion-makers in
popular society -- to simply march with the right crowd?
The
latter is the far greater likelihood -- especially considering that any carefully reasoned decision to support
the legalization of same-sex marriage would also require most of such converts to first
adopt the following radical or insupportable corollary positions:
-- Endorse the view that conjugal reproduction and
family formation by and through the married couple is now entirely irrelevant to marriage, because it is flatly
impossible in same sex marriages (artificial reproduction via third-party sperm or egg donation is something entirely different, and an
utterly alien and implausible alternative for society).
-- In the case of persons who are adherents of
most prominent religions, reject and
violate a fundamental doctrine of those faiths. As noted above, for example, to lend support
to the legalization of same sex marriage would be in direct violation of
fundamental and invariable Catholic doctrine.
The same can be said for other prominent religions, such as Islam,
Mormonism, the Southern Baptist Convention, and Orthodox Judaism.
--
Conclude that legalization and normalization of SSM will not increase the popularity
and attraction of homosexuality, and therefore
will not result in more widespread adoption of the homosexual life, a reduction
in heterosexual marriage, and a commensurate reduction in the birth rate –
UNLESS the convert believes (a) that there is nothing undesirable or counterproductive about an
increase in the portion of the population practicing a homosexual life; or (b)
that adoption of a homosexual life is in every
and all cases compelled by genetic predisposition and entirely involuntary,
even, for example, in the case of the class referred to as bisexuals, a position which is in
clear conflict with observable reality.
-- Endorse and accept the proposition that there is no moral, social, medical, or hygienic difference between heterosexual and homosexual sex activity, because the mandatory legalization of SSM entails that position. This point is linked to the radical argument that is essential to the legal and constitutional establishment of same sex marriage, namely, that there is no "rational basis" to the limitation of marriage to a man and a woman. If, for example, homosexual sex is more dangerous and risky to health than normal heterosexual intercourse -- and there is every indication that it is -- then there is plainly a rational basis (wholly apart from the fundamental interest in simply propagating the race) for limiting marriage to a man and a woman.
--
For related reasons, those who endorse SSM should be prepared to accept
a regime whereby children will be taught (as they already are in some locations) that homosexual practices and
homosexual marriages are in no respects inferior to the heterosexual
alternatives. Stated another way, are
those who purport to support SSM prepared to state that they are wholly indifferent to whether their own
children are heterosexual or homosexual?
If not, they do not embrace the "equivalence" thesis, and the critical
premise for their support collapses.
--
Converts must also reject the principle, followed in various religions, legal
systems, and traditions, that heterosexual consummation is a prerequisite to a valid and binding marriage, in the sense
that absent consummation, the purported marriage is subject to nullification. This follows because such consummation is
impossible in a same sex union. Nor is
the requirement for consummation an obsolete relic that has no relevance today,
because it serves at least two relevant purposes: (1) the avoidance of fraudulent marriages;
and (2) the prevention of marriages that could not possibly result in spousal
procreation against the legitimate expectations of at least one of the marrying
couple.
Regardless of where one stands on the above issues and implications (and there are many other omitted for brevity here), they surely warrant thoughtful consideration before one joins in the radical transformation of a historical institution which, like traditional marriage, has served as a foundation for civilized society for so long and so well. But if the recent polls are even close to the truth, it appears that millions of Americans are prepared to embrace a contorted re-invention of marriage without the slightest regard for the disturbing consequences.
They seem content to accept a confused new vision of marriage in which white lace and promises must make room for black leather and the ambiguous arrangements of a strange new world.
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